You don’t need to wait until Christmas to sit on a man’s lap and tell him what you want. Any day of the year is a good time to give him this present.
A chair like one at your kitchen or dining room table will do perfectly. Have your sweetie take a seat. Then climb on top and let your legs straddle him. Lower onto him carefully. You’ll find gravity will get him nice and deep inside. Use the back of the chair for support and leverage as you rock back and forth.
Feel free to grind against him so your clitoris receives plenty of friction. You’re in control, and he’ll love this lap dance. When you’re ready for a change of position, make sure as you rise up you put your breasts where you want them – around his face, in his mouth, wherever the spirit moves you. Then turn around, get between his legs, and lower yourself back on him. Use his thighs for balance and support as you move up and down. For a slightly different feel, lean back against him. Encourage him to hold your breasts or hips as you have your way with him.
As always, I am not a licensed sex therapist or professional. Perform these moves at your own risk.